Your more against genetic engineering then, not cloning. Eventually they could probably change the gender, etc of a kid without having to clone them. And yeah, there is definately ways to abuse it, just like there are ways to abuse everything else, however, I don't imagine that it will ever get to that point, for a few reasons...
A. Not everyone needs to make clones. It's not like your going to be able to buy your own cloning machine at Wal-Mart. There will be specific uses for it. Most people will continue to breed the same way we have for thousands of years, and so the gender will continue to stay 99.999% random.
B. Cloning will be super, super, super expensive. Not just because it'd be an expensive process to begin with, but because people are greedy as hell, and they know that it's something they can charge a huge amount of money for.
As for memories being transferred to a clone, that would be impossible. But I don't think Haraldur and Asimir are on the same page. I think Haraldur is talking about cloning organs, not the entire body, which is what Asimir is talking about.