15 years old "is" young dude. And don't fool yourself with that Korean year stuff, lol. The days and seasons in korea are exactly the same as anywhere else in the world, and as such, she is 15. If your only 16 though, it's not too young at all. I'm 22...so different story Laughing As for your poll...I didn't like any of the choices. If she's going to be in the US for a good while, and you honestly think both of you will like each other in 3-4 years, good for you. However, don't waste 3-4 years waiting for her. You will probably end up disappointed in the end.